The 116 Life Ep. 93: How We Suffer Well
Published on November 6, 2024
In a recent episode of The 116 Life, Ace Harris and Meah Evans delved into the complex interplay between emotions and faith, using the animated movie “Inside Out” as a springboard for their discussion. They explored themes of mental health, the importance of acknowledging emotions, and the biblical perspective on suffering and human experience. This blog post will break down the key insights from the episode, offering actionable advice and thorough explanations to guide listeners in their journey of faith and emotional well-being.
Understanding Emotions Through “Inside Out”
The Role of Emotions
“Inside Out” provides a vivid portrayal of how different emotions—joy, sadness, anger, disgust, and fear—interact within us. The movie’s main character, Riley, struggles to balance these emotions, with Joy often trying to suppress Sadness. This dynamic highlights a crucial lesson: suppressing emotions can be toxic.
Actionable Advice:
Acknowledge All Emotions: It’s essential to recognize and validate all your emotions, including sadness and anger. Suppressing them can lead to greater emotional turmoil.
Balance Positivity: While maintaining a positive outlook is important, it should not come at the expense of ignoring genuine feelings of sadness or frustration.
Processing Feelings
The movie underscores the importance of processing feelings rather than ignoring them. As adults, we often have responsibilities that require us to keep moving forward, but it’s vital to take time to understand and process our emotions.
Actionable Advice:
Set Aside Time for Reflection: Dedicate time each day to reflect on your emotions. Journaling can be a helpful tool for this.
Seek Support: Don’t hesitate to talk to friends, family, or a therapist about what you’re going through. Sharing your feelings can provide relief and perspective.
The Tension Between Joy and Suffering in Christian Life
Biblical Perspective on Suffering
The speakers discussed the tension between joy and suffering in the Christian life, emphasizing that life is full of struggles and acknowledging this is crucial. They referenced the story of the Israelites in Egypt and their journey to the Promised Land as a metaphor for the Christian experience.
Actionable Advice:
Embrace the Journey: Understand that the Christian walk involves wrestling with past comforts and current struggles. It’s a journey of learning patience and reliance on God.
Find Strength in Scripture: Reflect on biblical stories and verses that speak to suffering and perseverance, such as Romans 8:18, which reminds us that present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory to be revealed.
Jesus’ Emotional Experiences
The speakers highlighted Jesus’ own emotional experiences, such as weeping at Lazarus’ death, to illustrate that feeling deep emotions is part of the human experience and does not diminish one’s faith.
Actionable Advice:
Be Honest with God: Bring all your emotions to God, including anger and confusion. Trust that He can handle them.
Find Comfort in Jesus’ Humanity: Remember that Jesus experienced deep emotions, making His divinity even more powerful and relatable.
Navigating Personal Hardships
Trusting in God’s Goodness
The speakers shared personal stories of grief and doubt, emphasizing the importance of trusting in God’s goodness even when life feels overwhelming. They argued that true faith involves wrestling with difficult questions rather than simply accepting platitudes.
Actionable Advice:
Hold Onto Faith: Even in moments of doubt, hold onto the belief that God is good. This can provide a sense of hope and direction.
Seek Community Support: Surround yourself with a supportive community that can reinforce your faith and provide comfort during tough times.
The Importance of Community
Both speakers reflected on the importance of community and support during times of suffering. They acknowledged that while individual experiences of grief and pain may differ, the shared understanding of God’s presence can provide comfort and hope.
Actionable Advice:
Engage with Your Community: Participate in church groups, support groups, or any community that shares your faith and values.
Offer Support to Others: Be there for others in their times of need, offering a listening ear and empathetic presence.
Practical Steps for Emotional and Spiritual Health
Bringing Burdens to God
One of the key takeaways from the episode was the importance of bringing your burdens to God and leaving them there, rather than trying to micromanage how He handles them.
Actionable Advice:
Practice Surrender: When you pray, consciously surrender your problems to God and resist the urge to take them back.
Trust in God’s Timing: Understand that God’s solutions may not come in the form you expect or within your desired timeline. Trust that He is working for your good.
Integrating Mental and Spiritual Health
The speakers emphasized that mental health and spiritual health should go hand in hand. Your feelings don’t dictate God’s goodness; His goodness is greater than our feelings.
Actionable Advice:
Prioritize Mental Health: Seek professional help if needed, and don’t view it as separate from your spiritual journey.
Maintain Spiritual Practices: Continue with spiritual practices such as prayer, meditation, and reading scripture, which can provide a foundation of peace and stability.
Conclusion
Navigating the complexities of emotions and faith is a journey that involves acknowledging and processing feelings, trusting in God’s goodness, and seeking support from a community. By embracing these principles, you can find a balance between joy and suffering, and maintain a strong, resilient faith even in the face of life’s challenges. Remember, it’s okay to question and wrestle with your faith—this is a natural part of the journey towards a deeper, more authentic relationship with God.
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TIMESTAMPS
Introduction and Feelings (00:00:00)
The speakers discuss their current feelings and the importance of honesty about emotions.
Inside Out Discussion (00:00:56)
They introduce the movie “Inside Out” and its relevance to understanding emotions.
Emotions in Inside Out (00:01:37)
The significance of joy and sadness in the movie is explored, highlighting the balance of emotions.
Biblical Connections (00:03:02)
They discuss how the movie helps identify emotions, relating it to biblical teachings on feelings.
Christian Life and Wilderness (00:04:26)
The tension between joy and struggles in the Christian life is examined, emphasizing the wilderness experience.
Misconceptions of Christian Life (00:05:01)
They address the misconception that Christians do not face struggles, stressing the reality of difficulties.
Metaphor of Bondage (00:06:01)
The discussion includes the Israelites’ bondage in Egypt as a metaphor for sin and spiritual struggles.
Journey to the Promised Land (00:07:02)
They reflect on the challenges faced by the Israelites and the importance of patience in faith.
Understanding Despair (00:08:05)
The conversation touches on feelings of despair and the importance of recognizing struggles in faith.
Sympathy and Support (00:09:15)
They emphasize the need for sympathy in the church and the importance of sitting with others’ pain.
Jesus Wept (00:12:06)
The story of Lazarus is highlighted, illustrating Jesus’ humanity and ability to relate to human emotions.
Recognition of Jesus’ Humanity (00:14:01)
They discuss the significance of acknowledging Jesus’ humanity and emotions throughout his experiences.
Grounded Conversations (00:15:10)
The speakers express appreciation for the honest and grounded nature of their discussion on emotions and faith.
The Goodness of God (00:15:17)
Discussion on the phrase “God is good” amidst life’s harsh realities and questioning its meaning.
Questioning God (00:15:48)
Exploration of personal feelings towards God’s goodness during difficult times, including doubts and struggles.
Personal Loss (00:17:36)
Speaker shares the impact of losing a brother and the initial questioning of God’s goodness.
Community Support (00:18:31)
The role of community in processing grief and reaffirming faith during challenging moments.
Artistic Expression (00:19:05)
Reflection on how music can convey the complexities of faith and suffering.
The Reality of Life (00:20:01)
Acknowledgment that life includes suffering, and belief in God’s goodness must be tested.
Navigating Grief (00:21:05)
Speaker discusses personal experiences with grief and the importance of trusting God despite pain.
Understanding Suffering (00:23:04)
The need for honest conversations about suffering and faith in God’s goodness amidst life’s challenges.
Suffering Well (00:28:27)
Discussion on the concept of suffering well and maintaining faith through personal struggles.
Venting to God (00:30:39)
Speaker shares the importance of expressing emotions to God as a means of processing suffering.
Understanding Surrender (00:33:08)
Discusses the importance of bringing burdens to God and leaving them with Him.
The Challenge of Trust (00:33:35)
Explores the difficulty of trusting God completely without micromanaging outcomes.
The Nature of Suffering (00:34:30)
Highlights that suffering can be a prolonged process requiring patience and trust.
Healthy Emotional Outlets (00:35:26)
Encourages taking frustrations to God instead of harmful substitutes like substances or social media.
Feelings vs. God’s Goodness (00:35:48)
Emphasizes that feelings do not dictate God’s goodness and that His goodness transcends emotions.
The Promise of Future Glory (00:36:25)
Reminds listeners that current sufferings are minor compared to the glory to come.
The Motivation Behind Tattoos (00:38:05)
Shares a personal story about getting a tattoo as a reminder of faith during challenging times.
Faith Amidst Hardship (00:39:55)
Discusses how faith can provide perspective and strength during difficult seasons of life.
God’s Constant Presence (00:42:25)
Reassures that God will never emotionally abandon us, even in tough times.
Daily Dependence on God (00:43:37)
Stresses the need for continual reliance on God for sustenance in all aspects of life.
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